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My Story
I’m Nel! A devoted husband to my wife, Yumi, and a proud father to Louie and Ellie. Like many fathers, I carry two worlds: the demands of business and the responsibilities of family. Born and raised in the Philippines, I began my professional journey there before moving to Singapore, where I lived for five years. It was at a conference in Singapore that I met Yumi. After a year and a half of long-distance dating, I moved to Japan in 2016 to build a life with her.
Now based in Tokyo, I navigate the joys and challenges of fatherhood while growing a coaching practice rooted in accountability and resilience. Alongside coaching, I run a consulting practice that helps Japanese companies ethically hire Filipino talent — bridging cultures and creating meaningful opportunities. Whether I’m guiding executives through reinvention or helping fathers stay present at home, my work is rooted in trust, transparency, and transformation.
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
- John 16:33 -
A Journey of Accountability
Life hasn’t always been smooth. I’ve faced job loss, business setbacks, relationship struggles, and the weight of depression while adjusting to life in Japan. The language barrier and cultural isolation were real — and so was the pressure to keep showing up for my family and career, even when I felt drained.
Through those challenges, I discovered something powerful: accountability is the bridge between aspiration and action. Transformation doesn’t happen alone. It happens when someone walks beside you, keeps you honest, and reminds you of your strength when you forget.
The Turning Point
As a husband and father, I realized my battles weren’t mine alone. My family needed me to be present, grounded, and whole — just as the people I was leading needed me to show up with clarity and strength.
I chose to fight back — not with perfection, but with persistence. I rebuilt my confidence one step at a time. And while I’ve come a long way, I continue to grow. Because leadership and fatherhood aren’t about having all the answers — they’re about having the courage to keep showing up, especially when others are counting on you.
That shift didn’t happen in isolation — it was shaped by the people who stood by me and held me accountable.
The Missing Piece
Friends, family, and mentors stood by me. They challenged my thinking, celebrated small wins, and refused to let me settle for less than I was capable of. That experience taught me something profound: the power of having someone in your corner.
Not just a cheerleader, but a steady partner. Someone who sees your potential even when you don’t. Someone who won’t let you drift away from your aspirations when you’re built for impact.
That’s the kind of accountability partner I strive to be. Not scripted. Not distant. Just fully present — offering a space for entrepreneurs, executives, and fathers to navigate change, leadership, and aspirations with clarity and courage.
Why I Partner
Today, I serve as an Accountability Partner for working professional and dads. Guiding ambitious leaders and fathers through moments of transition, uncertainty, and reinvention.
My coaching is intuitive, non-structured, and deeply personal. I create a space where leaders, founders, and dads can think out loud, reset, refocus, and stay consistent in pursuing what matters most.
Whether you’re scaling a business, leading a team through uncertainty, or striving to be more present at home, I walk beside you — helping you stay accountable to the aspirations that define your life.
What Makes Me Tick?
Empathy
I know what it’s like to face difficult times, professionally, emotionally, and as a father. Whether you’re an executive under pressure or a dad balancing family and career, I get it. You’re not alone, and I walk beside you with steady, real support.
Certified Wisdom and real-life experience
My certifications in empowerment and emotional intelligence are paired with lived experience. I blend structured insight with resilience, helping you recalibrate with clarity and stay accountable to what matters most.
Understanding Leadership & Fatherhood
Having lived and worked across Singapore, the Philippines, and Japan, I understand the weight of leadership and the silent guilt fathers carry. I coach with cultural sensitivity and respect for the challenges you face in both business and family life.
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Personalized Partnership
I don’t follow scripts, follow you. Every session is tailored to your priorities, creating space for honest reflection, accountability, and breakthroughs that move you forward.
My Coaching Philosophy and Approach
Empowerment Through Partnership
Accountability works best in partnership, built on trust and consistency. I walk beside you, helping you stay aligned with the goals that matter most in your career and family life.
Action & Consistency
Accountability isn’t about pressure, it’s about progress. Together, we’ll define outcomes that reflect your ambitions and values, and build momentum you can feel.
Holistic Alignment
You’re not just an executive or just a dad, you’re both. My approach balances leadership clarity with personal presence, so you can thrive in every role.
Continuous Learning and Adaptation
Life changes, priorities shift. I meet you where you are, offering practical support that evolves with you.
Affiliation and Certifications
Member of Certified Coach Alliance (CCA)
Certified Empowerment Coach
